Tuesday, 6 January 2009

Be positive ---especially for u....


A new discovery from when I ask some friend how r u, most answer is so so. Seldom these one saying I am very good, very happy.

While asking another group of friends, all the answer is good, great, cool.

In fact these friends are in same situation, just thinking differently. Some friends thinking no good things happen, so just so so mood. The other group of friends thinking no bad thing happen, so in good mood.During all the life for a human being, besides sleeping time,not much time left. During those short time, I hope all my friends who I loved being happy..

If others saying bad words on back of u. Not care of this, as he spent at least 2 hours to thinking of these bad language. And express for one hour. If u not regardless him, compare with him u have two more happy hours. If u spent 4 hours hating him. Then u r the loser, as ur sad time is more than 1 hour. If u wanna to be angry, it is ok, give urself 5 mins to get angry. Then forget this. As ur time is valuable, not as rabbish as those people who saying bad words behind u.

If u loose money, please recover soon after short time being sad. As maybe the one who poorer than u pick it up. And they need it more than u. And just consider u devoted some of income to charity, which will make u more substantiate.

If u not smooth on work, adjust ur attitude. As if the work always so smooth, it not need such a talent as u. U r coming to solve the problem. If it is not difficult at all, isn’t it the work anybody can do?

If ur life not smooth, tell urself. If always suger during all life, it is meanless. Life is colorful when it has bitter time. Only pass this time, then u can feel how sweat ur other time is. So need to adjust ur heart into happy.

Be kind to the people who like u

Regardless the people who hate u. Forget them, let them hate u.As u not need to change their mind. As u r urself, not need to please others to do the things u dislike(but at first cannot hurt others.)

These are what I thought in today. I hope every day my friends can be happy. As we are lucky people. If this life, we are born as mosquito, even slapped to death by human, u can not speak out u r innocent. If born as a pig, that is worse, thinking that people too nice to me, providing food, house, but the purpose is to make u fatter, then eat u.if born as a plant, do not have any emotion, cannot express urself. If u born in poor country in Africa, u will starve to death. If born in Iraq, u maybe bombed to death when walking in the street. Thinking in this way, if u r already very lucky?

Donot always make urself as a philosopher who only see the saddness of life. Let’s be a little silly. Happy is enough

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