Tuesday, 20 January 2009

23rd Nov 2008 be nice to ourselves


today my cusin and I accompany her client to buy clothes and make hair. She is from Spain, but she born in China.

The 60 years old lady is very nice, and also I am very nice girl, she liked to talk with me at first sight. So I enquire how is life in Spain. She is going to frighten me to death, before 8 get up and cooking breakfast for family members, clean floor, do all house work, and then go to shops to take charge of business. Then take care of her 4 grandson at the age of 3, 4, 6, 7. God bless her. If I was her, I already died for four times.

In fact she is very rich, almost billionare. But she seems totally make herself as a machine. So I told her “dear aunt(chinese usually call that age lady in this way), u need to spend more time on ur own. U not born for work, during the past 20 years, u already suffered so much. Now is time to enjoy. U can employ more workers, so urself can be a little relex.’’ This lady liked me too much after talking with me, insisted that next time if I go to Europe calling her. They will pick me up from the airport.

For the first time to meet her, I already seems an old friend of hers, helpping her to improve the wearing : “the necklace already put on, let’s put the scarf on bag . Ohh ur red inner cloth show up, we better hide it. And the pant, if put a little down will looks better ” My cusion clicked on me, to notice me this is not suitable. Hehe, I am bad girl, I not care. This is good for her. Before get off, I emphasis to her : “I am telling the truth to u, dear, because consider u as my real friend” To avoid she like me too much to kiss me, I jumped off the car.

Sincerely for those old age people. They really passed too hard life as beginning of the business is very hard. When they become rich, only care about business, buying estate and also leave money to children. Never used these money for themselves. Just as example of this lady. We took her to buy a sweater cost only 200RMB, she saying too expensive. OMG. She is really not love herself enough

In my idea, the way Europe, American and Australian to expense the future earning is not good.But same way as this lady is also not good. We should keep a good proportion for expense and business or invest. Such as if ur target of this year is save total 100, if more than 100, we should reward ourself buying good gifts or going travel or hold a party to celeberate. As those people who is owner of shop or company, no other people will reward u for good work. If u not reward urself, who will do that for u?

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