In the past, i was a very insistent girl. if others not agree with me, i will keep on arguing until they give up. Every problem, i think only have one way to solve. every things, i thought should just have one idea. If i not persude u, ok u can persude me. Then we both think this correct.
this character changed until a friend of mine's one word. One thing he and i have different opinions. He is a TV program emcee in LA, USA at age of 45. I thought he have seems more things and knows much more than me. So i said:"ok, i agree on u, and change my idea on this thing" He said:"sunnie, u not need to change ur mind. keep ur own mind plz ".suddenly i realize a lot.
Now i also meet some people have different mind from me on same thing, but i not trying my best to persuade them.
In fact the the world is beaufitul because of difference. Every man's mind is not computer or machine, cannot set a mode. we should face to others with telorante heart on other's different mind and different action on one thing, as long as they not hurt others. And we cannot change our personality because others not like. Such as a a breezy girl change into quiet because ur bf prefer(if later u change a bf who love breezy girl, u change back? Joking). Cannot refuse to buy the cloth u love very much, while ur friend saying ugly.
Besides accept different idea, also should accept different character. Such as my ex-darling--- Christian. U already almost perfect. When u saying i will change that for u. I told u, u not need to change. If i love u, i need to love all of u. Not only the good side, but also the other side. This character is urs, U r unique.As nobody is totally perfect(except Sunnie, hehe, just kidding). As long as that character of urs not hurt others. Just keep it.(but bad character which hurt other may be need to change a little) Even we cannot be together, we still wish each other all the best.
this character changed until a friend of mine's one word. One thing he and i have different opinions. He is a TV program emcee in LA, USA at age of 45. I thought he have seems more things and knows much more than me. So i said:"ok, i agree on u, and change my idea on this thing" He said:"sunnie, u not need to change ur mind. keep ur own mind plz ".suddenly i realize a lot.
Now i also meet some people have different mind from me on same thing, but i not trying my best to persuade them.
In fact the the world is beaufitul because of difference. Every man's mind is not computer or machine, cannot set a mode. we should face to others with telorante heart on other's different mind and different action on one thing, as long as they not hurt others. And we cannot change our personality because others not like. Such as a a breezy girl change into quiet because ur bf prefer(if later u change a bf who love breezy girl, u change back? Joking). Cannot refuse to buy the cloth u love very much, while ur friend saying ugly.
Besides accept different idea, also should accept different character. Such as my ex-darling--- Christian. U already almost perfect. When u saying i will change that for u. I told u, u not need to change. If i love u, i need to love all of u. Not only the good side, but also the other side. This character is urs, U r unique.As nobody is totally perfect(except Sunnie, hehe, just kidding). As long as that character of urs not hurt others. Just keep it.(but bad character which hurt other may be need to change a little) Even we cannot be together, we still wish each other all the best.
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